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Kuriakin Zeng's avatar

Joe, your essay captures the weight of love when it’s inseparably tied to responsibility.

The moment in the treatment room is seared into my mind—hope, despair, and fierce tenderness colliding in one breath.

Your honesty about resentment doesn’t diminish your love; it humanizes it, showing how profound care often exists alongside exhaustion.

“For her and for me” feels like the heart of this piece, a quiet mantra balancing the tension between self-preservation and devotion.

Thank you for articulating the ache and resilience of family bonds with such clarity and courage.

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Joe DiCastro's avatar

Thank you so much for your words here, Kuriakin! I appreciate them so very much.

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Robert Ker's avatar

This is amazing. I thought I knew you well but we would have so much more to talk about

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Joe DiCastro's avatar

Thanks, Bob! I don’t think I spoke a lot about these experiences with you, but definitely want to hear your thoughts if something here resonated with you.

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

...this piece turned out so beautifully...appreciate your raw unfiltered impressions, rembrances, and thought in here...

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Joe DiCastro's avatar

Thanks! The piece evolved since class and I’m thankful for your ideas and comments on the earlier drafts! I appreciate you. I’m so excited Im getting to read your work here on Substack!

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

…let’s rock king…

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Brigitte Kratz's avatar

You ARE heeding beauty‘s call, Joe. What a raw, honest, and beautiful piece, I know it‘ll stay with me.

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